第一辑 安乐与自在 Volume 1: Inner Peace and Freedom
第四章 每个生命出厂模式是不一样的
Chapter 4: Every life comes with a unique factory setting
生命的出厂模式加成长环境，构成了一个人的生命维度
你的生命维度是怎样的？
The factory setting of life, combined with the growth environment, composes a person's life dimension.
How is your life dimension?
今天，我们来进一步探讨生命的真相，我们先来了解一个概念——“生命的出厂模式”。
Today, let's further explore the reality of life. First, let's understand a concept called "the factory setting of life".
所谓生命的出厂模式，就是指人类与生俱来的潜在的智商、情商、灵商和德商以及各种潜质。生命的出厂模式加上成长环境，构成了一个人的生命维度，人类的生命维度差别还是很大的。
The factory setting of life refers to our innate intellectual quotient, emotional quotient, spiritual quotient, moral quotient, and various potentials. The factory setting of life, combined with the growth environment, composes a person's life dimension, which can vary greatly among individuals.
那么，什么是生命的维度呢？简单讲，就是指一个人的现在的生命境界。
So, what is the life dimension? Simply put, it refers to a person's current state of life.
就好比孙悟空和如来佛，生命境界相差甚远，孙悟空七十二变、火眼金睛，神通广大，但怎么也跳不出如来佛的手掌心。受了五百年苦后，通过观音菩萨点化，唐僧的教化，孙悟空的生命境界提升了，生命的维度改变了。
For instance, the Monkey King and the Buddha are vastly different in their states of life. Monkey King, with his 72 transformations and fiery eyes, has immense supernatural powers. However, he can never escape from the Buddha's palm. After enduring 500 years of suffering and receiving guidance from Avalokiteshvara and teachings from Monk Tang, Monkey King's state of life improves, his life dimension changes.
我们先分别学习一下智商、情商、灵商和德商等概念的含义。
Now let's first learn the meanings of IQ (intelligence quotient), EQ (emotional quotient), SQ (spiritual quotient), MQ (moral quotient), etc.
智商（IQ），是对认知智能的测试，反映的是人的观察力、记忆力、思维力、想象力、创造力，以及分析问题和解决问题的能力。而正常人的智商，大多在85到115之间。
IQ is the measurement of cognitive intelligence. It reflects a person's abilities in observation, memory, thinking, imagination, creativity, as well as problem analysis and solving. A normal person's IQ is usually between 85 and 115.
情商（EQ），包含了自制、热忱、坚持，以及自我驱动、自我鞭策的能力。值得指出的是，情商固然包括人与人互动的层面，
EQ encompasses the abilities of self-control, enthusiasm, perseverance, as well as self-motivation and self-discipline. It's worth noting that EQ also covers human interaction.
哈佛大学心理学博士丹尼尔·戈尔曼认为情绪智能包含五个主要方面：
1.觉知自己情绪的能力，这是情绪智能的核心；
2.控制自己情绪的能力，使之适时适度地表现出来；
3.激励自己、调整情绪的能力，它能够使人走出生命中的低潮，重新出发；
4.了知他人的情绪和需求的能力，这是与他人正常交往，实现顺利沟通的基础；
5.调控自己与他人的情绪反应的能力。
Daniel Goleman, a psychologist with a Ph.D. from Harvard University, identifies five key components of emotional intelligence:
1.The ability to be aware of one's own emotions. This is the core of emotional intelligence.
2.The ability to control one's emotions and express them in a timely and appropriate manner.
3.The ability to motivate oneself and regulate emotions. It enables one to elevate from low points in life and start anew.
4.The ability to understand others' emotions and needs. This is the basis for healthy interactions and effective communication.
5.The ability to regulate one's own and others' emotional responses.
灵商（SQ），是指人类的心灵智能，就是对事物本质的洞彻能力、超越逻辑思惟的顿悟能力和直觉能力。灵商和智商都是认识事物的智能，但灵商比智商的维度要高。灵商本身也是有不同维度的，灵商越高，维度也越高。
SQ (spiritual quotient) refers to the spiritual intelligence of humans, that is, the ability to penetrate the essence of things, to gain insight and intuition beyond logical thinking. Both SQ and IQ are intelligence in understanding things, but SQ has a higher dimension than IQ. SQ itself also has different dimensions. The higher the spiritual quotient, the higher the dimension.
德商（MQ），是一种知行合一的能力，它决定人类如何将普遍适用的一些原则（例如：正直、责任感、同情心和宽恕等）运用到个人的信念、愿景和行为中去。德商包括的内容有：体贴、尊重、容忍、宽容、诚实、负责、平和、忠心、礼貌、幽默等一切美德。
MQ (moral quotient) is the ability to integrate knowledge and action. It determines how humans apply universal principles such as integrity, responsibility, empathy, and forgiveness to their beliefs, visions, and behaviors. MQ encompasses qualities such as empathy, respect, patience, forgiveness, honesty, responsibility, equanimity, loyalty, politeness, humor, and all other virtues.
智商和情商的商值，跟生命的维度没关系，在同一个维度下，它们的商值跟能力成正比。商值越高，能力越强。
The values of IQ and EQ are not related to the dimension of life. In the same dimension, their values are proportional to abilities. The higher the value, the stronger the ability.
德商和灵商的商值，跟生命的维度成正比，商值越高，维度也越高。
The values of MQ and SQ are proportional to the dimension of life. The higher the value, the higher the dimension.
德商和灵商就像是一个事物的两面，德商更强调仁慈，灵商更强调智慧，当它们达到一定的维度，这两个面就会融为一体，我们可以称之为“慧商”。
MQ and SQ are like two sides of the same coin: MQ emphasizes kindness, while SQ emphasizes wisdom. When they reach a certain dimension, they merge into one, which we can call "Wisdom Quotient".
低维度的人会以自己的生命境界揣度高维度的人，比如，德商低，但情商高的人，对自己的领导表现得谄媚、奉承、巴结、虚伪、执行力强。
Individuals with lower dimensions tend to judge those with higher dimensions based on their own state of life. For example, those with low MQ but high EQ may show flattery, hypocrisy, and strong execution towards their leaders.
德商高，情商也高的人，对自己的领导表现为恭敬、忠诚，善解领导的意思，执行力强。但是，德商低，情商高的人会认为德商高，情商也高的人跟自己一样，善于奉承、谄媚、巴结、虚伪等。
On the other hand, individuals with high MQ and high EQ, show respect, loyalty, understanding, and strong execution towards their leaders. However, individuals with low MQ but high EQ may regard those with high MQ and high EQ as being similar to themselves, assuming that they are skilled in flattery, hypocrisy, etc.
智商、情商、灵商、德商，我们把它们总称为“四商”。四商不是来源于遗传。人类的遗传基因是指DNA上的遗传信息，基因有两个特点：一个是忠实地复制自己，第二个是受到外界的辐射有可能发生突变，而导致疾病。
IQ, EQ, SQ, and MQ are collectively known as the "Four Quotients", which are not inherited. Human genes refer to the genetic information on DNA, which have two characteristics: one is to faithfully replicate themselves; the other is the possibility of mutation due to external radiation, leading to diseases.
所以，人类的遗传基因只能在肉体上起作用，身体跟父母长得比较相似或者相近，而四商却可能和父母相差甚远，不可能是遗传的。这四商怎么可能在DNA上体现出来呢？
Therefore, human genes can only work on the physical level; they may result in the similarity in appearances between children and parents. However, the Four Quotients of children may be vastly different from their parents. Thus, they cannot be inherited. How can the Four Quotients be reflected in DNA?
DNA是由分子组成的，是生物体发育和正常运作必不可少的生物大分子，是属于化学级别的物质；而人的四商是人的心智，心智的能量形式不是分子和原子级别的，心智的能量级别是生物场能。
DNA is composed of molecules. It is a biomacromolecule that is essential for the development and normal functioning of organisms. It is a chemical-level substance. Whereas, the Four Quotients are mental faculties, whose energy form are not at the molecular and atomic level, but rather at the biofield energy level.
人的四商的商值分别跟父母的四商的商值完全没有关系。比如，智商高、情商也高的父母，生的孩子有可能智商低、情商也低，反之亦然；灵商和德商较低的父母，生的孩子有可能灵商和德商较高，反之亦然。
The values of a person's Four Quotients are completely unrelated to the values of their parents' Four Quotients. For example, parents with high IQ and EQ may have children with low IQ and EQ, and vice versa. Similarly, parents with low SQ and MQ may have children with high SQ and MQ, and vice versa.
有一种人四商都很高，这种人是极其罕见，但他们的父母可能是四商都很普通的人。
Some individuals exhibit high levels of all Four Quotients, which is exceptionally rare. However, their parents may have only average levels of the Four Quotients.
一个人的出厂模式和以后的成长环境决定了一个人的四商，但是出厂模式起主导作用，是主因。当然，成长环境等外缘也很重要。成长环境包括他的生活环境、社会环境、教育环境等，对四商的开发和培养都起到很重要的作用。
A person's innate factory setting and subsequent growth environment determine their Four Quotients. However, the factory setting, as the main factor, plays a dominant role. Of course, external factors such as the growth environment, including living environment, social environment, educational environment, etc., are also important for the development and cultivation of the Four Quotients.
下一章，我们就接着讨论这个问题。
In the next chapter, we will continue to discuss this topic.
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